On the 10th day of Christmas...

How do you incorporate more of the true meaning into Christmas?..... In years past we have had the manger out, and then you put hay in it each time you do nice things for each other. We have not done that for a few years, and this year we really should have my kids have been fighting so much lately!! I ask the kids (especially Canyon because he is young) why we really have Christmas at least every other day through the whole season, but this year we haven't read stories or anything..... and today Maddie said it doesn't really feel like Christmas. It was after we finally read Luke 2 and watched the movie on Jesus' birth that they finally felt like it was Christmas, so any ideas on how to spread this out throughout the whole Season and not just on Christmas Eve???